The Only Program That Will Help You To Find Yourself In Your Relationship (Even If You Feel Completely Lost)

The Reclaim Yourself System is a ground breaking course that will teach you how to get back your identity, self-confidence, and independence in your relationship. You’ll learn how to:


Stop neglecting your needs & desires


Feel empowered and in control again


Break free from feelings of guilt


Stay true to yourself

Watch the video below and find out what the Reclaim Yourself System can do for you!
The Reclaim Yourself System
Get Back Your Identity, Self-confidence and Independence When You’ve Lost Yourself in Your Relationship.
This course will teach you how to:
Create space in your relationship where you will have the freedom to do your own things, have your own friends, make your own decisions and pursue your own dreams and aspirations.
Discover who you truly are and what you truly want in life without paying for an expensive coach.
Stop compromising your needs, interests and aspirations.
Stop feeling guilty for doing the things that make you happy.
Stay true to yourself, even when your partner is insecure or mistrusting.
Trust yourself and find the confidence to make your own decisions without feeling a need for approval from your partner.
Effectively express your feelings and needs to your partner and get what you want (even if your partner is stubborn and hard to talk to).
The Reclaim Yourself System is a STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE for feeling confident, independent and empowered in your relationship without having to undergo expensive, lengthy coaching sessions. It will allow you to TAKE CONTROL again over your happiness!
Does this sound like you?
Do you want an exciting lifestyle where you’re engaged in your hobbies and the things that you love?
Do you want to feel free to make your own choices and decisions?
Are you tired of feeling like a dependent and insecure person in your relationship?
Do you feel like you have given up everything for your partner?
Are you sick of feeling guilty for wanting to do the things you love?
Most of us have been told that it’s completely normal to lose yourself in a relationship.

But it’s NOT.

Nobody should feel lost and less confident in their relationship. You deserve to feel happy and free to be your true self!
So what’s the real problem? Chances are, you have no idea how to feel confident in your relationship, to feel independent and to just be ‘you’ again. You need some powerful strategies to put you in control of your happiness.
The ONE thing you need to know is… A person who feels lost in a relationship CAN take control and CAN stop feeling like a victim of their circumstances. They just need the RIGHT strategies!
If you’re like most people, you know that you deserve to be happy in your relationship, but you just lack the confidence and guidance to make positive changes.
Well… Things are about to change.
A brief introduction…
Our names are Bastiaan & Chantalle, founders of Authors of two powerful books and featured on Tiny Buddha, Marc & Angel, Pick the Brain, Mind Body Green and many other popular websites. Over the past few years we have successfully helped hundreds of people to feel confident and happy again in their relationship.
“Our focus is to help people who have lost themselves in their relationship so that they can claim back their identity, self-confidence and independence – without having to undergo lengthy and expensive sessions from so called experts”
We have a CONFESSION to make!
YES, we struggled too! We were both in a relationship where we completely lost our identity, self-confidence and independence. We didn’t express our needs and feelings, we lost sight of our dreams and aspirations and EVEN WORSE, we lost our sense of self.

Both our relationships eventually didn’t work out. When we met each other we were so surprised that we experienced EXACTLY the same thing. We both made the decision that it would not happen to us and we started developing powerful strategies on how to be self-confident, independent and have a strong sense of self. AND IT WORKED!

Years later we are happily married and we are both strong, mature people and have our own identity in our relationship. We can genuinely say that we complement each other instead of becoming almost the ‘same person’. That’s how we know that the strategies we developed REALLY work.

And the most important thing is that they will work for you as well!

You can learn these simple, yet powerful strategies and turn your relationship and your life around for the better. So stop feeling stuck and lost in your relationship. Take action, take control and learn to be happy again.

Here’s why it’s important to take action right now… We’ve helped hundreds of people reclaim happiness in their relationship with our Reclaim Yourself System. It is an EASY, step-by-step system for taking control of how you feel in your relationship and to claim back the independent and confident you.

We want to help you make positive changes in your relationship and your life and it all starts with the decision to take ACTION and take on the powerful strategies in the Reclaim Yourself System. You might wonder by now what our step-by-step system exactly looks like…

Well… let’s have a look at the 5 vital steps to feeling confident and independent again in your relationship or marriage;

Step 1

Create space in your relationship where you can do your own things and make your own decisions.

Step 2

Rediscover yourself, embrace self-reflection and find out what you truly want in life.

Step 3

Learn what it looks like when your partner is insecure or mistrusting (one of the most common reasons people lose themselves).

Step 4

Reclaim a strong sense of self when your partner is insecure or mistrusting.

Step 5

Express your needs and feelings to your partner to get the changes you desperately want.
Sounds like an easy plan to follow, right?
But It’s never as easy as it seems… We all need some guidance sometimes.
If you’re like most people… You probably know you need to find yourself again. You may feel like your self-confidence needs a boost. You likely see other couples who look so happy together and you want the same.

So clearly you want to make positive changes in your relationship.

What the Reclaim Yourself System will show you is the exact system that we used to feel confident, independent and ultimately happy in our relationship. Let us help you!

Here’s how we’ll do it…
“The Reclaim Yourself System: Get Back Your Identity & Self-confidence When You’ve Lost Yourself in Your Relationship”
You’ve heard our story. You know that what we offer can really help you. Here’s what our Reclaim Yourself system includes:

Module 1

How to create space in your relationship so that you can feel free and independent again.

Module 2

How to dig deep inside yourself, get to know your true self and understand what you really want in your life.

Module 3

How to identify if you have an insecure or mistrusting partner – one of the most common reasons people lose themselves in a relationship.

Module 4

Strategies to be you again when your partner is insecure or mistrusting so that you can trust yourself and find the confidence to make your own choices and use your own discretion – without feeling a need for approval from your partner.

Module 5

How to effectively express yourself to your partner so that you can stop compromising your needs, interests, and aspirations (even if your partner is stubborn).
Imagine what it would feel like to be confident and independent again in your relationship…
The Reclaim Yourself System can change your life.
It will become your secret weapon to achieve:

A strong sense of self-identity








Positive change

So how much is the Reclaim Yourself System?
Normally, if you were to hire a coach to give you the right strategies and guide you through the process, it would cost you well over $1,500…

But because we want this program to be accessible for everyone, we won’t be charging anywhere near that. Normally we charge $197 for this program. If you decide to buy the Reclaim Yourself System today, we’ll let you have it for just $37.

How to Stop Losing Yourself in a RelationshipThis is a one-time offer only. And we’ll give you the best guarantee ever. We stand 100% behind the Reclaim Yourself System. If you’re unhappy for any reason whatsoever, let us know within 30 days and we’ll give you a full refund. No questions asked.

You’ll get access to:

33 high quality videos (spread out over 5 modules) packed with powerful strategies to help you feel confident, independent and happy again.
3 amazing bonuses (keep reading to find out what they are).
Downloadable PDF’s and MP3’s of all the lessons.
Normal Price:   $197

Special Offer:   $37

Here’s what others are saying about the Reclaim Yourself system
“A great course for anyone entering into a new relationship or who might have lost touch with their personal interests & needs within a long standing relationship. Also perfect as a gift to brand new couples. Their relationships stand a better chance at long term success after doing this little gem.”
How to Stop Losing Yourself in a Relationship
“An incredibly useful course that I am certain will help anybody make positive changes in their lives. If you follow this course and don’t find yourself thinking about things differently and making positive changes… You must have missed some modules. What I love is that that Chantalle and Bastiaan are talking from an incredibly vast life experience, an experience that shines through in each module.”
How to Stop Losing Yourself in a Relationship
How to Stop Losing Yourself in a RelationshipEd Herzog

Life Coach

“As a life coach, I would definitely recommend this course to any of my clients who have lost themselves in a relationship and need to reclaim their identity. There’s no fluff here…just a LOT of wisdom and practical exercises to help you rediscover who you are!”
How to Stop Losing Yourself in a Relationship
But wait, it gets better!
If you decide to buy the Reclaim Yourself System today you’ll receive the following amazing bonuses:

Bonus #1: Happy Relationship Package (valued at over $200)

Tools & resources that will help you to have a healthy, loving and stable relationship with your partner. You’ll get The Language of Love, 29 Ways to Show Love, 25 Love Notes and a checklist + worksheet. You’ll also receive 21 positive affirmations you should be telling yourself every day.

Bonus #2: The Art of Turning Obstacles Into Opportunities (valued at $49)

An exclusive eBook and worksheet on how to overcome challenges and obstacles in your life.
Hurry, there’s not much time left to sign up for this special price
Even though it might not feel like it now, it really is possible to rediscover yourself, feel comfortable being “you” in your relationship and feel happy again. You are a unique and valuable human being. It’s time to stop comprising your needs, dreams and aspirations TODAY! Get your copy of the Reclaim Yourself System by clicking the “Yes, give me access now” button down below.
Normal Price:   $197

Special Price:   $37

Any questions?
Below you’ll find the most commonly asked questions about the Reclaim Yourself System. If you can’t find the answer to your question then feel free to send an email to info(at)

Do I need to be in a relationship to do this course?

You don’t need to be in a relationship at the moment to benefit from our course. By doing this course and learning the powerful strategies, you will be able to build a strong foundation early in your future relationship to ensure that you do not lose yourself. 

Will you be adding more content to the course over time?

Our course is already very comprehensive. Having said that, we will evaluate the course periodically and use feedback from our students to improve the course. So yes, we might add things in the future or make small improvements. But don’t worry, you will have access to anything we add or improve.

What if I don't like the course?

If you’re not 100% satisfied with our course, just let us know within 30 days after purchasing and we’ll refund your money. No questions asked.

How do I know if this course is right for me?

If you have lost self-confidence, independence or a strong sense of self since being in your relationship, then this course is exactly what you need. And what’s the risk? You can try it for 30 days and if you’re not satisfied, we will give you a refund. Click here to buy our course now. 

How long will I have access to the course?

You will have lifetime access to our course. You can return to the course as often as you want, engage with the community and ask us questions.

How does the course work?

The Reclaim Yourself System is an online course and every day you’ll receive a new lesson. In total there are 33 lessons and activities. You can access course anytime you’d like and anywhere in the world. You just need an internet connection. 

What exactly does the Reclaim Yourself System consist of?

The Reclaim Yourself System consists of 33 high quality videos with strategies and activities to help you feel confident, independent and empowered again in your relationship.

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